Pre Marriage: 9 Tips In Preparation Set Wedding

Marriage is a moment that is eagerly awaited by everyone selian it also marriage is a sacred or holy event so for implementation we all want to look perfect, to create the wedding perfection we are often confused by the variety of things megenai wedding preparations, giving rise to concerns such as fear , stress, and suddenly doubt often experienced by the bride and groom before the wedding / marriage. To be worthwhile to try to organize ourselves well and remain calm so that preparations for the wedding goes according to plan, the following 9 tips in arranging the wedding preparations:

1. Create a list

  Write down all pinching pressure and fears that you face in marriage preparation and before the wedding day. In addition to the list, write down the reason of your fear. If you feel you can not handle it alone, seek advice from family or close friends. Or discuss your fears and concerns to your partner so that you do not feel alone and there is always ready to help you.

2.Relaxs

  Your tension in the marriage preparations are already quite high. Emotions began to uncontrollably. You so easily offended. Small mistake can lead to anger. Try to relax eg meditate while listening to music with nuances of nature, like the chirping of birds and the rustle of the waves. Imagine you are in a place you've visited and generate a sense of fun you on the spot.
3.Prepare mentally

  In preparation for the wedding we need to build a large enough courage to start a life together with others. Thus, the mental preparation you need to do both. How, by being honest and open. Reveal the weaknesses and strengths of each. If there is something that is still up in the partnership be you and him, to wrap up. Learn to appreciate the togetherness and "keberduaan". Believe me, getting to know your partner, you will be more confident to live a new life with him.

4.Equally as appreciative

Increase tolerance and press your ego. Do not exaggerate the problem. Respect the opinions of others (including those of their families). Many couples who married before the quarrel, just because of disagreements about the actual wedding preparations do not matter. Remember, instead of organizing a wedding is important, but the wedding itself.

5.Always communicate

  You and he should be a good team in front of your family together. Sometimes that makes women's stress is the attitude of a couple who did not care. So, invite your partner to be involved in the preparations for the wedding (wedding planner / organizer). Frequently discuss the wedding preparations. Give him the responsibility that he felt needed.

6.Daily Agenda

  Write in your agenda what has been done on that day at bedtime. Make a plan for what to do the next day. With write like this, you can evaluate your activities. This makes you calmer because it has done a lot of things in the wedding preparations management.

7.Involving family

  So you do not stress yourself, ask for help from family. Form a committee. Give pretty big responsibility on people trust you to take care of the wedding preparations. Or, if you do not want to bother, just take advantage of the services wedding organizer, wedding planner, wedding service, wedding package organizers and so on.

8.Indulge

  Prepare your body to enter the world of weddings. Adequate rest and consumption of healthy foods to keep your body fit in the D-day. Indulge yourself. Usually, stress disappear once you get the right partner to have fun.

9.Enjoy only

  Make the experience into a lifetime wedding was such a happy face unexpected surprises. Do not make the wedding day such as an exam or even moments that felt awful just because of worry about the wedding procession will run smoothly or not, and life after marriage. Enjoy it every important moment that happened in your life. And on election day, smile and do not think of flaws that you see. Cheer because it is the most important day in your life.

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