The thing to avoid that harmony is not disturbed
As for the causes that you should avoid in order not disturbed harmony among others are:
1. Do not be selfish!
Selfish is the source of the commotion wherever. Curiosity win themselves, want to always understand, want to always be considered without going to do the same in a partner, and curiosity is always right into the dominant factor precipitating contention for the sake of argument. Selfishness could grow in self anybody, be it on the wife herself and the husband himself. If this attitude constantly undergoing apply in the marital relationship, it is certain that your partner will be reluctant to undergo a much longer relationship with you. Divorce would be the option most often taken when one can not drown out the selfish nature.
2. Do not lie!
Never lie to you to get used to your partner for something you'll enjoy the results only own. Tantamount cheat deceive couple pairs of what he does not know. If you want to lie, do lie that aim for happiness that can be felt with him. For example, you lie to your partner for a successful surprise you make plans to celebrate his birthday. Lying as it would make the pair as it would make the partner happy because there are side-romantic side that can be felt by you and your partner.
3. Do not compare!
Avoid comparing attitudes between your partner with others. Still mending when you compare the benefits with the shortcomings of others. But if the opposite? Of course this will make your partner be discouraged. Thankful just how their condition and believe that your spouse at any shortcomings there is always a surplus. Compare with the pair
4. Do not be overprotective!
Unfortunately still be affection, love still be in love. But that is not the reason that you are entitled to retain all activities under the pretext of protection of your spouse affection! You should protect your partner when you feel something is threatening the safety and honor. But that does not mean small things must be in your control to make your partner feel like a child. Just trust what it does. If you suspect that what they are doing is dangerous, please communicate well.
5. Feeling rejected when asked to have sex
Husbands and wives should always be in fair situation addresses in marriage. So that none are more dominant than others, including sex. Feel rejected when asked to have sex to be one of the causes of the husband / wife was not happy in the family.
Hopefully by applying these tips above as a couple, you can create a harmonious relationship with your partner all the time.
Good luck!
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